6/10 Kneeling

With the football season supposedly starting on time and with the protests, I have been reading a lot about players kneeling and if coaches are okay with that, here are my thoughts….

Again, I am not black. I don’t know how it feels to be black and I am sure I don’t want to know what it feels to be looked upon because of my skin color. I do believe in white privilege, just look at history. I don’t have any black friends, but I really don’t have any friends (will be a different blog), I know black people, I interact with black people. Do I feel biased toward them as a white person, No. I judge people individually on how they treat me, doesn’t matter the color of their skin. If I was in a not desirable neighborhood could I feel biased if a group of black men are walking toward me, yes, but I would feel the same if a group or white, asian, hispanic or a mixture of skin colors.

But my logical brain is having a really hard one with the protests. I understand what they are protesting, but it is not the normal everyday white person targeting black people and 99.5% of cops are not targeting black people. They are protesting to a very few people. Now, if there is a bigger issue that is out there, they are doing a horrible job getting that out there. I have a Masters degree and all I can tell is they are protesting policy brutality. So, why not go to the police station, not burn the police station, but talk to the captains, sergeants and see how they can work together. The cop that killed George Floyd is a totally scumbag, there was no need to be on him for more than 30 secs, if he felt in the moment Floyd was resisting, especially with 3 other cops to help. I have watched enough Live PD to know how the cops take down people.

Now to kneeling, America is the greatest and weirdest country in one, but we are hypocrites. We tell other countries to let their people do what they want, but then we tell our citizens that they are disrespecting our country by using their rights. There is nothing in the Constitution that says you have to do anything for the National Anthem and unless you go to a sporting event, when was the last time you sang it or stood for it. Do you sing and stand up every morning when you get up, at work, before you go to bed, HELL NO you don’t. So if this is something you hold in such high regard, why don’t you do it everyday? I pray everyday and try to read the Bible, but do I think about the flag or anthem, no. Do I respect the people who died and still protect my rights to pretty much do whatever I want without any worry of imprisonment, HELL YES. To me, not using my rights as a citizen disrespects the men and women who have served, more than anything. Football is one of the top things people pay attention to, so if players feel they can voice their frustration or get a issue on everyone’s mind go for it. Kneeling is not disrespectful to the flag or service members, we kneel to pray. If they were turning their backs and flipping off the flag, sure then let’s have a conversation, but even so, here in America that is freedom we enjoy.

So let people peacefully protest a way they like. Let’s keep violence out of this and how about people that can make a change on both sides, yes both sides need to make changes, get together to work on the relationship between the police and community. I grew up in a town of about 25k, 97% white, I live in a upper class neighborhood now. My only dealing with police have been, Minor in Possession of Alcohol when I was 19 and 2 speeding tickets, last one being 20 years ago. We have a sheriff drive through my neighborhood every once and while, because they are bored. Last time they came for something major, was a house party a year ago. I know other neighborhoods, have police everyday. Think rationally and logically abut this, why would they be there? Because it is a black neighborhood or because that is where the majority of crime happens? Now, if you want to get into inequality, that is a totally relevant topic that is at the core to these issues. Looking at this logically, the police don’t target black people, but neighborhoods with crime, data seems to suggest that it is usually black neighborhoods, which is far, but there is not need for police to go to non crime areas. I said it earlier, police need to work with the community, not just police it, but the people of the community need to step up and take their community back and not let crime run amuck. Politicians need to get off their asses and get businesses to invest in the people of these communities and get good paying jobs, so that people are not out being violent for money. That is where this starts and stops.

Let’s get this figured out, Vote 2020, don’t care for who, there are better choices, just Vote.

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6/2

Just because you hold up a Bible, stand in front of a church and say you are Christian, DOES NOT make you a Christian.

Being humble, loving, respectful, empathetic and trying to live the way Jesus was an example is how to act like a Christian.

I am pretty sure many people have lost that somehow.

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6/1 Protests

I haven’t posted in a while, but I felt I needed to post about the Floyd protests.

I am a white male that lives in an upper middle class neighborhood in city around 1M. So I have basically won the lottery of the color of my skin, living in the US and having the opportunities afforded to me by income of my family. I am not going to apologies or feel bad about that. I also know that I will never be able to understand how any minority, especially Black Americans, feel on a daily basis.

I understand the peaceful protests, that is everyone’s right under the constitution. I don’t understand the violence. The violence’s is what keeps the prejudice alive in this country, especially in the rural areas, which every state has. People is rural areas, think cities are just violent shit holes and that everyone will die of a gun shot or a violent crime, which is not true.

It’s unfortunate, that the violent protests get the majority of the news coverage, even though there are more peaceful protests, that have an open dialogue.

At this point, I don’t know what the solution is, but what is going on is not.

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5/19

“It’s on the internet it has to be true” -Abraham Lincoln

This is one of my favorite sayings. Facebook really shows you how stupid some of your friends are, enough said.

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5/11 Gender Neutral Parenting

Just reading how Elon Musk and his wife are going to gender neutral parent there new baby, which has a crazy name, by the way. What the fuck is this new parenting thing. First off, yes some children/adults are not mentally the same gender that their body is. There are always some anomalies in genetics that are not the normal. So why would you not just parent normally, but be open with your child and ask them how they feel and then change your parenting and maybe get counseling on parenting and have your child talk to someone, outside of you, to see how they feel. Maybe they truly feel this way or maybe it is just a one off issue. But parenting this way, to me, will make the kid feel different anyway. Humans have been around for a very long time and the way things have been are working. Not sure why someone would change something when maybe there is nothing to change.

When my wife worries about stuff, especially our kids going to junior high, I tell her; ” What’s the point in worry about something that hasn’t happened. If it never happens then you worried for no reason.”

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5/8 Star Wars Last Movie

Why is there still so much bitching about the last Star Wars movies? Was it the best movie ever, No, was any of those movies the best movie ever, far from it. As a kid, I loved the first 3 or the second 3, depending on how much a nerd you are. Then came Episodes 1-3, talk about boring. At least the last 3 where exciting and had a plot you didn’t need a Masters Degree to follow, like Episode 1. Still trying to figure out the trade war???? I have a Masters Degree and still either don’t understand what happened or really don’t care.

If the new Star Wars movie makes you mad on a daily basis, get a life, with COVID to Trump to Climate Change, there are way more things to be pissed about.

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5/7

Reading the news while my kids are doing school work, seriously, what constitutes news anymore. I usually look at CNN, Fox News and Yahoo. I like Yahoo, since it brings in my different sources and different types of articles and I read CNN and Fox, to see how both sides are reporting, so they are both horrible, not one real unbiased thing. Fair and balance my ass. Anyway, so looking at Yahoo and there are multiple, I repeat multiple, stories about Kesha’s boyfriend applying a butt mask to her butt every night during the quarantine. First, why do they need to make a butt mask, Second, why does she think she needs to tell everyone that.

I don’t get why everyone needs to tell everyone, every little thing about their life. Also, stop taking pictures of your food and posting it. Nobody gives a shit that you had a steak, I’ll give you eating a blowfish or something weird. Also, nobody cares that you baked with your kids or baked for your kids, baking cupcakes doesn’t make you parent of the year.

Yes, I know complaining about people posting things online is what I am doing, but I don’t care, this is somewhat therapy for me and people are FUCKING stupid.

Have a great day

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5/5

Happy Cinco de Mayo, the day the bars made up.

The country really needs to be reopened. I am tired of the only news to read is either COVID stuff, The Last Dance reviews, Tiger King, or celebrity crap from their house.

Still not sure if they should reopen states though. I live is a red state with a small population that is reopening. Our governor is an idiot, who I am pretty sure Trump has pictures of doing something behind an Arby’s, because talk about not having a mind of your own. I think that is what bothers me the most about the republicans that defend Trump, or really any politician that defends their party no matter what, that they don’t have any backbone or common sense. If someone did something ILLEGAL or unethical, then call them out. Don’t defend them. I don’t know if Trump lies on purpose or he thinks he can talk his way out of everything. I do want to clarify, that I am a registered republican, but I am a very moderate republican. I am just sick of all this non-partisanship, just do what is best for your state/district, country and what will make you sleep at night.

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Coffee Pots

Last bitch of today: Why can’t they make a coffee pot that doesn’t spill are over the place. It is 2020, it doesn’t seem to be the hard.

Yes, I know I can tip it less, but I don’t want to stand there forever. I want to full tip it and have all of it go into the mug. Is that too much to ask!

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